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    Shout out to the sponsor of this episode Tonal. Right now, Tonal is offering our listeners $200 off your Tonal purchase. Just go to tonal.com and use promo code LOVERS. Big love to the sponsor of this episode, Masterclass. Right now, our listeners get an additional 15% off any MasterClass annual membership at https://www.masterclass.com/lovers ——————— In this episode of Lovers, I sit down with Affion Crockett for a conversation about love, timing, and what it really takes to build a relationship that works. Affion is actually part of my own love story. He’s the reason Jared and I met. But in this conversation, we turn the lens on him. Now in his 50s, after years of dating, therapy, and the loss of his father, Affion shares that he finally feels clear on what he’s looking for in a partner, and what he’s no longer willing to force. For a long time, he believed in the idea that if you try hard enough, you can make a relationship work. But watching his father spend years in an unhappy marriage, and ultimately pass away still carrying that weight, changed how he sees love completely. We talk about why some relationships aren’t meant to work no matter how much effort you put in, why “happy wife, happy life” doesn’t always lead to real fulfillment, and what it looks like to pursue a relationship that actually adds to your life instead of draining it. This isn’t a story about giving up on love. It’s about getting honest about what love should feel like, and having the clarity to wait for the right fit. If you’ve ever tried to make something work that just didn’t click, or wondered if it’s too late to find the kind of relationship you really want, this episode is for you. Want to manifest a love that FEELS exactly as you’ve always dreamt it would (in your wildest dreams)? Get specific with that language using our LOVERS feelings wheel + Romantic Wishlist worksheet https://www.loversbyshan.com/resource/the-feelings-wheel---newsletter-subscribers-only CHAPTERS 00:00 Trailer 01:00 A Word From Me 02:06 How He Changed My Intimate Life 03:59 The Unexpected Matchmaker Moment 05:34 Acting as Jared’s Manager?! 08:11 How Affion Ended My Relationship 12:03 Opening Up About His Father’s Passing 13:08 Next Week’s Preview 14:56 “Nothing He Did Was Ever Good Enough” 16:19 You’re Not Defined by Your Worst Moment 17:30 How Military Life Shapes Abandonment Issues 19:07 Starting Therapy 23:58 “Baddie Problems” Explained 28:32 Boundaries Are an Act of Love 34:45 The 3-6-9 Dating Rule 35:42 Casting Dates Into Roles 37:48 Shan’s Dating Strategy 38:31 Bething & Melyssa Ford 40:24 Dating for Data 43:08 Why Jared Hates Advice 44:53 The Feelings Wheel (Helpful Tool) 46:05 Was Shan a Catfish? 46:45 Ad Break 48:38 Affion's Dream Relationship 52:26 What He’s Up To Now 54:19 Our Final Thoughts 54:59 Dr. Amir Levine & Attachment Theory Follow Affion Crockett Instagram → https://www.instagram.com/affioncrockett/ Watch A Hip-Hop Story Now → https://www.ahiphopstory.com/ Want more Lover? Receive the weekly Love Letter → http://loversbyshan.com/newsletter Join the Lovers Community → https://www.loversbyshan.com/community Explore quizzes and worksheets → http://loversbyshan.com/quizzes ________________________ Advertising & Other Inquiries: team@loversbyshan.com
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