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    Jared Brady and Jonathan Singletary sit down to talk about fatherhood, inheritance, and the difference between intention and what's already in the body. Jonathan Singletary is a Los Angeles-based musician, songwriter, and founder of Piano & Prayer, a musical meditation and community gathering practice featured in the LA Times that has grown into a meaningful spiritual presence for thousands of people. Jared Brady is a creative director, actor, and co-founder of Shared Entertainment. Both men are in the middle of the work. Jonathan reaches for his daughter on instinct before the decision clears his mind. Jared watches his father's disappointment move across his own face and recognizes it. Neither of them is reporting from a solved place — they're two fathers who love their kids, who came from fathers they love, and who are sitting with the uncomfortable truth that some of what they're trying not to repeat is already running underneath everything. What holds this conversation together is a question Jared names explicitly: when you strip away the edited version of yourself, what voice are you actually parenting from? This episode earns its warmth by being honest first — about cost, about inheritance, and about the grace it takes to extend that same grace back to your own father. This one is for anyone who is actively trying to parent differently than they were parented, and discovering that the work is less about what you know and more about what you notice. ———————— Show some love on Daddy Day with our sponsor Arya! Go to http://arya.fyi/shan and use code DADDY10 ;) LOVERS! Get 15% off OneSkin with the code LOVERSBYSHAN at https://www.oneskin.co/LOVERSBYSHAN #oneskinpod Showing love to our sponsor Biologica. Take their Quick Hormonal Life Stage Quiz to find the formula that’s right for you, and get up to 32% on your purchase: https://biologica.com/lovers Lots of love to our sponsor, Quince. Go to https://www.quince.com/LOVERS for FREE shipping and 365-day returns. Thumbnail picture credit: Belathee Photography ———————— CHAPTERS 00:00 Intro 01:12 Meet Jonathan 04:34 "That first year, they don't tell you" 05:05 Is fatherhood allowed to be hard? 07:28 The adult I'm trying to raise 09:04 Jonathan's dad: the engineer who programmed his kids 10:06 "If I didn't have my dad, I wouldn't be here" 12:00 Before We Go Any Further... 14:25 Doing it different than our dads 15:34 Fear as a parenting tool 16:15 The car story — when your dad jumps out of you 18:59 "God knew not to give me a son" 21:22 Vacation dad vs. discipline dad 23:36 The football story — "how's your walk with God?" 25:15 Raising strong-willed daughters 27:22 Do you feel confident in how you're parenting? 29:40 "Sometimes I just go to sleep" — survival over perfection 30:39 What you thought fatherhood was vs. what it actually is 32:37 How kids change who you let into your life 34:10 Catching your kids at home birth — fatherhood as an extension of love 35:21 "My kids can feel what I'm carrying energetically" 38:08 Resentment builds when you sacrifice everything 39:44 The switch that flips when someone disrespects your wife 40:27 Help Us Keep This Going 43:22 Raising boys in the age of the manosphere 44:20 "If anybody's gonna smack me it's Rye" — raising daughters 46:14 "You can punch this pillow" — breaking the cycle on big feelings 49:06 The wooden brush tally system — how discipline gets passed down 51:14 "I want my kids to expect repair" 52:32 Approaching fatherhood with curiosity instead of certainty 53:57 Raising kids as a collaborative effort Follow Jonathan Singletary → Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/jonathansingletary Website: https://www.jonathansingletary.com Piano & Prayer: https://www.jonathansingletary.com/piano-and-prayer/patreon Follow Jared Brady → Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/enjoyjaredbrady Want more LOVERS? Get a free weekly Love Letter → http://loversbyshan.com/newsletter Join the Lovers Community → https://www.loversbyshan.com/community Explore free quizzes + worksheets → http://loversbyshan.com/quizzes ________________________ Advertising & Other Inquiries: team@loversbyshan.com
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