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    Modern dating is becoming increasingly transactional—but have expensive dates created an unspoken expectation of s*x? In this 12-minute 8 At The Table conversation, the table debates men who spend hundreds of dollars taking women on dates when their real goal may not be getting to know the woman at all. If a man is primarily interested in s*x, one argument takes the conversation somewhere controversial: why not simply be honest about what you’re looking for instead of using an expensive date to create expectations? Then the conversation gets even more complicated. Imagine you’ve planned the first date, made the reservations and arrived at her house to pick her up. The chemistry is immediate. She invites you inside, things escalate, and you end up sleeping together before you ever make it to dinner. Do you still take her on the date? Does sleeping together change the purpose of the evening? Does spending $500 on dinner entitle a man to expect anything afterward? Are women expecting financial investment while men expect physical intimacy in return? Or has modern dating become so transactional that both sides have forgotten the point of actually getting to know someone? This conversation gets into first-date expectations, sex, expensive dates, dating standards, hookup culture, men paying for dates, gender roles, transactional relationships and what men and women actually expect from each other. 👇 What do you think: If they sleep together before the first date, should they STILL go on the date? And does paying for an expensive date ever entitle someone to expect anything afterward? Subscribe to 8 At The Table for unfiltered conversations about dating, relationships, marriage, men, women and modern dating culture. Primary: modern dating, transactional dating, first date sex, men paying for dates, who should pay on the first date, expensive first dates, first date expectations, hookup culture, dating expectations, modern relationships Secondary: does a woman owe a man after a date, men paying for dinner, $500 first date, sex before first date, should men pay for dates, dating has become transactional, men only want sex, women dating for money, sex and dating expectations, dating double standards, men and women dating debate, relationship podcast, dating podcast, 8 At The Table #8AtTheTable #ModernDating #Dating #Relationships #FirstDate #DatingAdvice #MenAndWomen #RelationshipTalk 🔔 Like what you’re hearing? Don’t forget to hit that Subscribe button and join the realest conversations on the internet. https://www.youtube.com/@8AtTheTable/?sub_confirmation=1 ✨ Join Our Community ✨ By becoming a member, you’re directly supporting this channel and unlocking exclusive perks: 👉 Join us on “Patreon” and become part of this unique community today: https://patreon.com/8atthetable Follow us on Social Media: 📸 https://www.instagram.com/8atthetable/ 📘 https://www.tiktok.com/@8atthetable ✨ https://www.facebook.com/8atthetable/ ____________________________________________________ 🎥 Want more unfiltered conversations and powerful insights? Check out these next. Your next favorite episode might be just one click away 👇 ▶️ https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wNriz97_utQ ▶️ https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5S8w-YkJ1U4 ▶️ https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=c0Las2s2B3o ____________________________________________________ 🎙 What About Us? We’re not your average podcast. We’re 8 at the Table, where real people have real conversations about the things nobody wants to talk about. Since 2018, we’ve been breaking down the barriers around love, sex, dating, and relationships. No scripts, no filters, just truth. What sets us apart is our diverse cast bringing raw, uncut perspectives that spark debate, challenge norms, and connect with the culture. We’re not here to play it safe. We’re here to start the conversations everyone’s thinking but afraid to say out loud. Whether you're single, cuffed, complicated, or just curious, there's a seat for you at this table. ____________________________________________________ #ModernDating #Relationships #DatingWhileBroke #MenAndWomen #RelationshipTalk
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