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    You're changing. You're growing. You're stepping into who you were always meant to be. And the people closest to you don't recognize you anymore. They look at you funny. They treat you different. They make you feel like you're doing something wrong. But here's the truth: if they don't recognize the new you, you're doing it right. The crew dives into one of the most uncomfortable truths about transformation. The people who knew you before your change are often the ones who resist it the most. Not because they don't love you. But because your growth exposes where they're still stuck. And instead of celebrating your elevation, they start acting awkward, distant, or downright hostile. ET breaks down the Harriet Tubman principle: she didn't carry a gun for her enemies. She carried it for the people she was trying to free. Because the ones closest to you are the ones most likely to snitch, sabotage, or talk you out of your destiny. Jemal opens up about how people who saw him build from the ground up didn't treat him differently until the world validated what he was doing. CJ shares how his wife is now experiencing what it's like to step into the light and have people who were once close suddenly act funny. Karl brings the perspective on why you can't stay around people who aren't building. And ET delivers the hard truth: you are supposed to change. People are not supposed to recognize you. That's not the problem. That's the proof. This episode will challenge everything you think about loyalty, relationships, and what it really means to transform. Because the higher you go, the more you expose where others are stuck. And if you're waiting for the people from your past to celebrate the person you're becoming, you'll be waiting forever. Stop dimming your light to make others comfortable. The new you is not for everyone. And that's exactly the point. *CHAPTERS* 00:00:00 Opening: Seeing the Vision Beyond the Walls 00:01:27 Team Introductions 00:03:20 Fair or Foul: The Airplane Seat Swap Dilemma 00:08:15 The Tip Jar Debate: Making Sure They See Your Blessing 00:10:17 The Harriet Tubman Sermon: Empty Hands Get Busy When You Start Building 00:12:47 They Won't Recognize You Anymore and That's the Point 00:13:37 Candis' Story: When Your Light Exposes Their Comfort 00:17:20 The Loneliness of Elevation: I'm Not With Nobody I Started With 00:19:35 The 20,000 Square Foot Reality Check: When Success Changes the Dynamic 00:27:09 A Prophet Is Not Recognized in His Hometown: The Jesus Principle 00:27:30 The Four Stages People Go Through When You Change 00:29:14 The Nine to Five Million Moment: When They Finally Defined It 00:26:48 Be Transformed By the Renewing of Your Mind: You're Supposed to Change 00:41:57 The X-Men Principle: Finding Your Tribe of Mutants 00:43:51 The Sharpening Principle *JOIN US LIVE ON PATREON* New audio every Tuesday, video every Wednesday, plus live recordings with the S2S fam. https://www.patreon.com/c/S2SPodcast120 *PRE-ORDER "WE IS GREATER THAN ME"* The debut book from Eric Thomas and CJ Quinney. https://www.amazon.com/We-Greater-Than-Me-Highest-ebook/dp/B0GPGXXD5D *NEXT LEVEL SPEAKERS CONFERENCE* June 5 to 7, 2026, Atlanta, GA. Learn to start, grow, and monetize your speaking brand with ET, CJ, Jemal, Karl, Inky Johnson, Jeremy Anderson, and Marco Kino. nextlevelspeakersconference.com *SUBSCRIBE* https://www.youtube.com/@S2SPodcastChannel?sub_confirmation=1 *LISTEN ANYWHERE* Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/secret-to-success/id123456789 Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/0GrMsi1Cxj3nipnI9HR1QX?si=f057018bcba44c15 *FOLLOW* Instagram: @s2spodcast *ABOUT THE PODCAST* The S2S podcast is hosted by Eric Thomas, Karl Phillips, the Bajan Sensation, CJ Quinney, and Jemal King. Four friends, four journeys, one mission, real conversations on faith, family, business, and the work it takes to build a life that lasts. New episodes every Thursday.
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